Anonymous: Hello ninja, Im in need of advice. My husband and I have been together for 10yrs and everything is AMAZING. But, before we we're married I cheated on him a few times. I've been completely faithful for 7yrs, but I still feel guilt. Should I tell him?


I might get flack for this but no I don’t think you should. Chalk it up as a mistake and a lesson, and do your best to forget about it and move on. Bringing it up and confessing now most likely won’t go over well. And since you can’t do anything about the past I don’t think it’s worth the drama it would likely cause. The key here is you can’t use this as a free pass to cheat and hide it again. Mistakes happen but sometimes they are just for us to learn from and deal with. This is your get out of jail free card and now don’t end up there again. Good luck.

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i’ve got 99 problems and being a decaying organism that’s born to die in a society run by money that i can’t escape is one of them 

do you need a hug

i think we all need a hug

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elementary school was like “hell yeah”. middle school was like “hell no”. and high school. high school is just “hell”

college is just “what the hell”

and as far as i can tell life after college is just “to hell with it”

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